Wednesday, March 24

The Gordilla family are an exemplary family of good church members in any country. The husband / father was murdered when the children were little and the mom has done a great job in raising them. Hafid (the only son) just returned from the South Salt Lake City Mission. Angelica came and took care of me every day last year when I was so sick. So I adopted her as a daughter and this picture is of us and my Guatemalan grandkids.

Susan Anderson and I had a wonderful lunch with Dr. Arlet Remis. Arlet has been a wonderful friend and a gift from God when I have needed a doctor! She and her husband are two out of fourteen doctors who have building a new hospital. It has been three years--and lots of money, but it is almost to open. It is beautiful! I am very impressed with the planning that has gone into it.

We did take time in between all of those visits to eat at Burger Pizza Diner and we took several rides in the Taxi-Motos, also known as tuk-tuks. Two different drivers were even willing to take all four of us in one taxi-moto. We are so big it was amazing it could make it up the hills!

On Saturday the 20th we went to Esquipulas with the Andersons. We visited 11 different families! It was exhausting for all of us! But it was wonderful to be able to visit in these beautiful people in their very humble homes. We stopped by Belarmina Alonzo's while she and her daughter were making tortillas. This picture shows the stove and the wood fuel. It is an efficient set up. We also visited the family of Eduardo Alonzo and actually visited with her husband, Hno. Miguel. This room is the only one with a concrete floor. We learned that the two daughters-in-law are sisters and that their mother also lives there. So there are three married couples, one older woman (four heads of household, one teenage son and three grandchildren all in this humble home (dirt floors in every room except this one).
When we finished up at CUNORI Mario Diaz had a little luncheon for us with the main admin -istrative staff. They gave us a nice certificate, some polo shirts, mugs and flash drives. They also welcomed Andersons at the same time. It was nice. The difficult farewells have begun!

Sunday, March 14

You cannot be defeated!

I was just studying the SS lesson for tomorrow and saw this quote. It is so profound. So many people are facing terrible challenges. My prayer for my family members today is that each one of us can develop the God-like characteristic of turning bad experiences into good ones.

Elder Hartman Rector Jr. explained: “[The] ability to turn everything into something good appears to be a godly characteristic. Our Heavenly Father always seems able to do this. Everything, no matter how dire, becomes a victory to the Lord. Joseph, although a slave and wholly undeserving of this fate, nevertheless remained faithful to the Lord and continued to live the commandments and made something very good of his degrading circumstances. People like this cannot be defeated” (in Conference Report, Oct. 1972, 170; or Ensign, Jan. 1973, 130).

Just keep reminding yourselves that, like Joseph, you cannot be defeated!

Friday, March 12

Our Surprise Party!

We started our last classes right 4:00 just like every Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday; however we were only 20-30 minutes into it when the "missing" students showed up with a cake and lots of other goodies. They also gave us wallets and other gifts. It was organized by Elder (yes, that's his real name) who is right behind us and between us in this picture. It was a very special experience.

Two postcards from Copan, Honduras

I thought you might enjoy seeing a couple of professional pictures before you scroll down to the ones that we took. It was a fun day.
Hello loved ones,
This is just a brief update because I have posted lots of pictures and info on the blog. So you will have to look there to see what has been happening in our lives.
One eventful day was our visit to “Copan Ruinas” in Honduras. It isn’t as dramatic as Tikal—or as hard to get to. I’ve explained a lot about it with the pictures. One very interesting story was the about the ball games. There are similar ball courts throughout Meso America. Games were played for three reasons: Religion, War or Entertainment. Lots of the information about them comes from Spanish histories written in the early 1500’s when they first invaded. If the game was played for religion it was to select a new god. Only the best athletes could compete. There were no more than seven players on a team. It is a game of lots of skill. When the game finally culminated in a victory, the captain of the WINNING team was willingly and happily sacrificed. His heart was taken from his chest while it was still beating and burned. His spirit went up with the essence of the smoke into the heavens and he was instantly transformed into a god.
If the game was played for war, only members of royalty could play. It was sort of like the time of the Israelites and the Philistines. Rather than have your people wiped out, you select the best of the warriors (and royalty) to challenge the best of the other people. The ball game was played and the king whose team lost (and frequently he was also one of the players) was sacrificed. His people then became subjects of the winning team. That is how the dynasty that ruled Copan for 400 years came to an end. The king lost his head after losing the ball game at Quirigua (where we visited with Christena and Nathan). They say he was a great king, but not a great ball player.
Sometimes they just played for entertainment and no one had to die. But the winning team did get to collect the goods from anyone who was watching the game. The spectators tried to run away as the game was ended, but the athletes chased them down and took all their jewels and booty they might have.
Our bus trip there was pretty interesting. You can only go as far as the border and then you have to show your passports, pay a fee and get a one day pass. You also exchange money at the border—and you have no idea if the people standing on the roadside are giving you a good deal or not. You then take a different bus into the country. We got off at an intersection on the highway and walked about ¼ mile to the ruins. When we were through for the day, we walked back, but we weren’t sure about where we’d see the bus. A lady told us we had to go into town. So we caught a taxi-moto (also called a tuk-tuk) and asked him to take us to catch a bus back to the border. He took us to a run-down house with a run down bus that said “Frontera” (border on it). We asked the ayudante (a young boy who is the assistant) what time it left and he just shrugged, like “I don’t know.” Or “No one knows.” He never smiled or offered us any info. Spencer tried to ask others, but he got nowhere. After about 20 minutes the driver showed up and we all scrambled for seats. The ayudante never smiled or offered any friendly overture or assistance. We were glad to get back to Guatemala and friendlier people. However, I know there are friendly HondoreƱos, too—we just didn’t happen to meet up with them.
The rest of the week has been very busy. It was our last week of classes with the students at CUNORI. They have exams next week and no regular class schedules. The following two weeks are breaks and then we are gone from Chiquimula, serving in the temple and visiting other places in Guatemala. In some ways we were more than ready for it to be ending. We are getting tired. But it is actually very hard to say good-bye when you get right down to it. On Thursday afternoon our top two classes of students surprised us with a party half way through the class. The brought a cake, pop, plates, forks, napkins, cups and a couple of presents. We were very surprised and very touched. Spencer hates the parties. He wants to slip away like a thief in the night because it so hard to say good-bye.
We will be having some parties at the church classes too, but we are waiting for the Andersons so that it can be a welcome party for them. That might change the focus and make it a little easier—but I doubt it.
The Andersons have been in the MTC this week and will arrive in Chiquimula on Sunday afternoon. We have a busy week planned with them. It is hard to believe that we are winding down this fast.
I have been cooking a lot of chili and freezing it. We will be coming back to Chiquimula after Semana Santa. We want to be back here for General Conference. The Branch President announced that the branch will cover transportation again, and we are providing lunch. We hope that the turns out is as good as it was in October. It will give us one last chance to provide a service and to say goodbye to the members. This is a bittersweet time.
We are excited to be this close to seeing everyone! You are loved and missed. We have the greatest family in the world.
Love,
Mom/Jeanine
PS: We saw a great t-shirt that could have been just as true for Guatemala as Honduras. It said something like:
Rules of the Road in Honduras
Blind curves are the perfect place for passing; If you have any trash throw it out the window immediately; If you want to pass, just honk really loud and GO!; double lines means you can drive on either side of them; if there isn’t room inside your car, just hang out the windows or the doors; when in doubt drive faster; If you drive after dark, at least one headlight must be out—and the other one headed crooked; If you drive in town, the law of the jungle applies!
I think you get the idea. It was great and made us smile because it is sooooo true!

On Monday, March 8th we had permission to cross the border into Honduras and visit the ruins in Copan. Its main time frame was from 400-800 AD. It is the second largest city (after Tikal) and only a fraction of the buildings have been excavated. Like most Mayan cities, there are layers of ruins. When a new king came into power, he would build his temple over the top of the previous one to demonstrate that he was a greater and more powerful than the last king. It also has the typical ball court (sort of visible in the background) where games were played that ended in human sacrifice. It was a very interesting day. We had a guide, who charged too much, but it was interesting and we loved the museum that preserves many of the original stela--while replicas are left standing out in the elements.